There is only two way

There is only two way in life one is 

Hedonism

Stoicism

Hedonism is where people are in pursuit of pleasure. All they want is pleasure and no pain or suffering. If pain is inflicted on them they don't solve they run from it .

Live for the Moment.

You enjoy every moment of your life and don't care what the future holds for you.

You can after pleasure and work a job and get retired etc.. 

You enjoy the pleasure in time to time and don't worry about anything.

For example we all completed our school and going for college we will enjoy those things in college but we also have pain of missing of school friends etc.. 

But that pain will be covered by other pleasures.

Stoicism this is another way of life .

You don't enjoy pleasure.

You go through pain and sufferings for your future self and You work for pleasure which is given in future.

But you'll enjoy your wisdom and money etc ...

In your way.

You have a control over yourself and your surroundings.

You become disciplined and become a fighter and you care about yourself first .

Emotions are control.

Which do you choose ?

Hedonism

"Live for the moment"

Stoicism 

"Live for the Legacy"