Things you need to avoid in life

Self Sabotage is hwen you have two conflicting desires 

You think you need to move on in your life or move forward ⏩ in your life but you're stuck.

Many things stops people from doing things 

Certain habits can be healthier to one person but it can be unhealthy for other.

Things that stooping you are 

•Resistance

•Hitting Your upper limit 

•Uprooting 

•Perfectionism

•Emotions

•Justification

•Disorganization 

•Attachment

•Judging 

•Pride 

•Guilt

•Fear

•Downplaying 

•Unhealthy habits 

•Busy

•Wrong people 

These are the aspects of self Sabotage.

Being successful can also make you less liked .

Because people or most of the people you know condemn rich guys and other for being successful.

You don't have to do that .

Being a Sigma male etc many people say that loving someone will deeply hurt you and make your time waste and make you vulnerable.

You have to choose the right person for you ,who supports and care for you .

Making yourself less attractive is lower confidence .You should be able to wear anything you like . It shows and boosts up your confidence.