Pacifying Behaviours

If you ask a question to people or confront them about something. They may be lying or not . But this is not about detection deception but to check for pacifying behaviours. There are many kinds of pacifying behaviours when people are under stress or discomfort. 

Use them to your advantage and make them throw words to you by it . 

•When under stress people tend to hide themselves and place a barrier between you and them . It may be of any kind of things like soda can , pencil etc...

• People also tend to freeze at the moment when you ask questions that are stressful to them. It might be a few seconds .

• Think of your best friend, when you confront him about something. He will not touch you at that time because he feels discomfort towards you at the time.

• We all talk with some kind of head movements and that is natural . But when people are lying or under stress this may not synchronize well with the words and head movements.

•  Things like scratching of forehead , nose etc are signs of discomfort.

 There is also a thing, theses are only signs of discomfort not deception. People also do tell the truth by doing it also.

If you want to find about deception in others.

First you have to make them clam and comfortable. Then instead of telling " you're not telling the truth " or " You're lying" . This makes them even more stressful . Ask them to articulate the things they did and ask for a more detailed explanation. So that they'll just lose and accept their deception.