The Shadow

We all humans tend to have a darker side which we know sometime and don't know . We will conceal this dark shadow side so it may not damaged others and It will not make us a bad impression among others . 

But this dark side comes or leak out without even our knowledge. We can't see it but it is just a matter of seconds we will do something harsh to others or to ourselves or show bad traits that'll will spoil our image or reputation.

What you need to do is there are two sides in our being . For example some may be a different dominant character in their home but a good guy outside . Only the people close to them know this side of their character. There are always two sides in human behaviour. 

You have to find these traits and the dark traits and work out on yourself in mind so that you can know when is happens and consciously you can avoid it. These dark traits might also be good when you know about iflt fully and use it to your advantage. 

There is no man in this world who is perfect  and people love others who have flaws like them .

Journal about these traits and know more about yourself . Work on your character and your thinking level. If you know more about yourself, you can do anything. Exorcise the demon in you and tame it . It works as you Ally then.....

For example , Steve Jobs has a good character but he also has one trait that he does even know and come out of him . He is very dominant in work palce . He shows is rough side in work place . He can't be a saint. He is also a man . It is his demon leaking out in time. Find you shadow ....