Blame Yourself First

 There might be many problems for you and  you might feel frustrated by it. But there is only one thing you can do right now. First you don't need to blame others or any other circumstances for anything it happened because of your wrong decision or it is not in your hands. Imagine that you drink mindlessly today and how will you feel tomorrow? You drink because you thought it was time to enjoy and party. You did it , no one compelled you to drink. You went to the bar with your friends, you should have the self control. You need to blame yourself for it. 

Be calm and next time you will have more control over yourself. Take a full responsibility on yourself and what ever thing you do in your life. There are some things in your control and some things are not. But if you manage to control yourself and your thoughts fully. You will be a great guy. So, stop blaming external things for causing problems. But yourself and you thoughts. Do solve your problems which will cause more damage to you quickly.