How to Influence People : Being Mindful

 You may know better than others, you think that you are virtuous person and all. But you are not really virtuous. You have just learned better than other in your life but there is someone who is better than you always. Imagine that you have a friend, you go greet him in a bad way or in a good way. If you treat him in a bad way, you will be treated the same by others. If you are kind to others they will be kind to you.

Who you are now? and who you want to be? There is a path between that place. The path is the process. You have tp try every day to be that person you want to be. You meet a person you can't m control their mind and how they think about you. But you can be a good guy and humble guy. They will automatically be good to you. This is the best way to influence people in your life. Don't ever think that you are the big shot and all. BE humble with others they may pick it up slowly, but you can teach them well.

Being kind and humble to others means a good thing. It will project you as a great guy to others. Even if they are not kind with you, they will become one soon. You have a path and your process. Make progress everyday and you will be that great guy every one talks about. If they are bad avoid them or try to change them. You may be ahead of others in your life. But they have a different view of their life. So, you can't show off with them or talk too much about yourself. It will be a bad thing to do.