Talking in good way

We all talk to others in a good way but we do not talk good all the time. It is because we have a deep condemn.or hate for that specific person in you. You talk with a friend about a friend in a good way or in a bad way.

Even if that guy says something ill towards you about your other friend. What you must do is, you should deeply acknowledge that thing he said and just simply hear it. 

That kind of person will always to wrong things about others when they are not present. Instead of doing that you can say it to their face directly that you don't like what they are doing.

If you stay with these infected evil minded people they will soon infest you. You will be like them. Don't talk ill about others even when they are not present. It is a good thing to follow.

Never be like these guys, how much time does it take for them to speak about you. They are not really your friends. Try to change them or avoid them. That is the best thing you can do.