You must have borders !

 As a man you must have some kind of borders. If some one violates the border you have to tell them before they cross their line. Some people may cross it on voluntarily to test your limit. You don't have to get angry for it, you just have to show them the other part of you. In a very clam and subtle way.

 

When you talk cut and right with others, you may feel left over behind but that is the fact. We all soon will be left over. I now feel the loneliness in me but it is also peaceful because I have limits I can't stay with people who cross my limits. They may just talk behind the back or say some nasty things within themselves. But you're good  you know that and you need to take care of yourself. These borders must be fixed and people should know that if they cross it they should know something will happen. 

For example, you stay with a group of guys. They are all your friends but life doesn't care about that. What is you want to spend money on something you don't want? What will you do? Make up a silly excuses or just say this is it to their faces. They may talk  back but you don't have to worry about those things because you don't care much. Love is hard even in friendship, there are rules for every person. The strong will show it because they don't want others to cross it but the weak will not show it because they feel ashamed of it. You now know what is good and what is bad?

You can just show to people that you don't like doing that thing which you don't like to their face. Or be the guy who just can't talk with people in front of their faces. They will act like they will love you in front but they don't deeply like you , in some way they condemn you every badly. Love is hard and Friendship too.